There is a particular kind of energy on a wedding morning.It's somewhere between “I cannot believe we're getting married today” and “Has anybody seen my earrings?”Someone is laughing.Someone is getting… 

Vanilla Rum Cake With Dulce de Leche and Other Excellent Decisions There are some things in life I am willing to debate.Wedding traditions.Whether you really need favors.How early hair and… 

I Hate Lychee. Explain the Lychee Martini. I need to begin with a fact.I do not like lychee.I have tried.The flavor by itself?No.The texture?Absolutely not.If you hand me a peeled… 

If There’s a Coffee Cart, I’m Already in a Better Mood I am going to try to approach this topic with the professionalism it deserves.It's coffee.At a wedding.On a cart.I… 

Your Vendors Should Be Talking to Your Coordinator, Not You There is a very specific kind of wedding-day question that somehow always sounds innocent.“Where should I put this?”“Are we ready… 

Who Actually Needs Your Wedding Timeline? More People Than You Think. At some point during wedding planning, your timeline stops being a document for the two of you.It becomes a… 

Your Wedding Vendors Don’t Have to Know Each Other. They Do Have to Work Together. Your photographer has never met your florist.Your DJ works at your venue all the time,… 

You Don’t Have to Include Every Wedding Tradition There is a very specific moment in wedding planning when someone says:“Wait… are we supposed to do that?”And I already know where… 

The Best Wedding Details Usually Have a Story There is a difference between a wedding detail being beautiful and a wedding detail actually meaning something.Both are allowed, by the way.Sometimes… 

“So, what’s your wedding theme?” It sounds like a perfectly reasonable question.Until you realize you don’t actually have one.You have screenshots. You have colors you like. You know what you…